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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Second (or third that) -- please encourage your kids to not only "be nice" to the incoming new students, but also to actively engage them and invite them to participate. My child is a new student this year and although everyone has been "nice" it is not the same as being kind and inclusive. Talk to them at lunch, invite them to sit with you in class, and try to get to know them. You may have more in common than you think. And I'd hate to think we are all raising a bunch of jerks. [/quote]

My point is that we cannot force anyone to forge human bonds with others.  Yes, we can and should teach our children civility and kindness, and certainly strive to do the same ourselves, but teaching them 'inclusion'?  I think considering any type of small private schools for their children, this topic should be a sobering element for any parent to take seriously, especially if they believe their children may have difficulty making new friends in any social setting.

I also agree with one of the PPs who pointed out the toxic impact of teachers' children being in the mix -- the enormous dis-service the presence of those children at their schools have upon the overall quality of other students tends to get exacerbated if the school is rather small in size to begin with.  That, I think, should be another issue parents should consider (though often slips under the radar) carefully in choosing the right school for their children.  [/quote]

At my child's school they were excited to get new kids.  The grade got about 60 new kids and the ones who had already been with each other for many years have been excited to expand their friend groups (especially girls).

But are you and PP serious that you are giving parents advice to avoid schools where the teachers' kids attend?  That is utter BS.  If you have had one or two bad apples that's unfortunate but it is so insulting to imply that all teachers' kids are bad apples and that people who have poured more blood, sweat and tears into a school than a parent can ever imagine don't deserve to have their child there - not just for quality of education but work/life balance.  That opinion to me is gross.[/quote]

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