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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s simple, people are attracted to people who seem to not need anyone. [/quote]

Which makes sense. Who wants a friend that is needy? Or who doesn’t fit in and is obsessive about it? Nobody’s going to want to be around that. Most of us don’t have time for new friends anyway.[/quote]

I’m still so confused why you’re so triggered by everything and reading so much into the OP. You’re assuming neediness and weirdness in all your posts. The OP was a simple question of “Why do some people gravitate to people who aren’t really that nice and say nasty things?”[/quote]

But her question of why women gravitate to that was under the much larger context of "I made myself more pretty and self confident and i don't understand why the other moms don't want to be friends with me".

She's not even friends with these other moms; she doesn't know that they're not nice and say nasty things. She doesn't understand why they won't let her in their club, even with her "glow-up".  [/quote]

That’s literally not what is being asked or said. She is saying that she has reflected on her own painful experiences and treatment, and has changed her perception of what it means to relate others in a kind and inclusive way. She hopes that others will be on board with this approach but that’s not what she’s witnessing. She doesn’t understand why unkind women are still sought after.

That fact that you keep hammering in on how she thinks she’s so pretty and that none of these women want to be her friends is VERY telling of what kind of person you are and which group you probably lead or belong to.[/quote]

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