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[quote=Anonymous]1) He showed he would be there in times of crisis (this was only possible due to a tragic event happening while we were dating, but nevertheless, was an excellent sign)

2) We could spent an inordinate amount of time together happily. My husband and I worked together in cube farm when we met and currently we both work together out of the same home office. We probably spend like 20 hours a day together all said and done and the breaks are like, going to the bathroom, running an errand, someone going to bed a little early etc. When I tell this to people they are baffled that we can do that without killing each other. So I think that was a good sign.

3) Neither of us like to fight. This doesn't mean we're pushovers, we're not. We have disagreements/conversations. But we HATE to fight so these things are addressed quickly. We are both quick to apologize and don't hold grudges. We are always both working to make the other's life easier, and this results in us always giving each other the benefit of the doubt.

I agree this is like, 50% luck and 50% choice because people can change and its hard to know how things are going to work out after a few years of dating. But there are signs, you should listen to your gut ALWAYS.[/quote]

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