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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you think you're exceptional? You're describing most fathers.[/quote]

Compared to the fathers i know in real life, not really.  Compared to what i see discussed here, yes.  And I guess it’s not really a fair sample of course because most people come here to complain because why post if everything is going well. [/quote]

The husbands I know in real life are generally nothing like the ones mentioned on here a lot. I honestly don't know why that is. I imagine some of it is because of course I don't truly know what goes on behind closed doors, I only know what I see (although I do think I have seen a lot with some families). The rest of it I don't know. Perhaps it's our SES level. Perhaps it's our self-selecting group of friends. [/quote]

Agree, some of the stuff I read on here is absolutely ridiculous and I couldn’t imagine myself or really anyone I know tolerating what I read here. 
I think what you see on DCUM is women that are out the outer limits of their patience with no one left to turn to looking for guidance from other anonymous  women who are also at the limits of their patience. The bad husband behaviors don’t come about out of nowhere, they are often in retaliation and proportional to slights and insults from the opposing side, the tiny contributing factors leading up to the horrific behavior are rarely discussed.

Whether OP is doing creative writing or he’s for real he sounds exactly like what most husbands I know are, honest, diligent, hard-working men that have their priorities for the most part in order.

Of course OP is going to have his blindsides, he may be poorly attuned to his wife’s sexual preferences, he might insist on cooking Thai too many times a month, no matter how amazing he may be the emotional treadmill we are all on will bring something to mind that could be just a tiny bit better; go ahead and focus on what could be better and all of a sudden your reality is what you’re not getting, resentment sets in and then you hate the man married.

But like most of us she got herself a good guy and could’ve done worse. [/quote]

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