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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If there’s one thing I’ve learned from parenting, it’s not to wish the years away. Every stage has its annoyances, where you think “I can’t WAIT for them to stop doing (thing that is driving you crazy). Everything will be golden then.”  Eventually they do outgrow (thing that is driving you crazy), but then (new thing that drives you crazy) comes along to replace it.  Just as Thing A gets easier, Thing B rears it head.  There’s never a point where you think, “I’ve arrived.” It’s a never ending game of wack a mole.

For example, I couldn’t wait for my twins to walk so I could stop carrying them everywhere and actually take them places. But then I quickly realized that walking brought a whole new set of issues, from running in two different directions in a busy parking lot to detouring through every.single.mud.puddle. Once we got that under control, riding bikes and getting them out of the house on time became the next challenge. And so on.

All you can do is enjoy each stage as it comes, and trust that the work and love you put in now will pay off later.  Teens can be difficult, but they also can be pretty awesome.
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How old are your twins?[/quote]

They’ll be 13 next month. Still running in different directions!   :D [/quote]

I asked because mine are 17 and seniors. This is the most stressful time for me since the first year, hands down.[/quote]

That must be really challenging, with all the senior year activities x 2. Are they both applying to college?[/quote]

just went through this last year with my twins. Good luck!  My suggestion is go 1000% full force to get everything EA and be done. Sept-Nov were HARD, but the rest of the year was a breeze (well, there were 100x activities) but the college application process was done. [/quote]

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