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[quote=Anonymous]np here. I haven't read the whole thread. A few things jump out at me though -initiating the beginning of a house renovation -- absolutely not. You should not even live through a renovation with this dynamic. You are barely holding the family together, as it is. Do not stress your marriage this way. -visiting another area to decide if we should move there -- no. You don't uproot your family. You sound as flaky as DH. -taking kids to visit his family -- ok -taking kids one by one on trips with his friends and their kids -- if it's his idea. -training for some kind of athletic thing -- if it's his idea -prepping our house for a sale and looking for a new house -- you are going to sink your family. -intensive volunteer role -- mind your own business -guest teach at his grad school -- only if it's his idea In all instances, Op either: should mind her own business OR she is thinking of things (moving, renovation) which will stress the family to the very max. [/quote]
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