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[quote=Anonymous]You need to talk to DH. First off you need to find out if this sabbatical is paid.  If it’s paid that’s information.  If it isn’t paid then you. need to figure that out.

Then you need to find out if this is actually a sabbatical where he gets to go back or if this is one of those “take these 3 months off and find another job because you’re out after 3 months” type thing.  This happened to a relative of mine and my spouse has heard of this in a previous field they worked in.  It’s normal in certain fields so I wouldn’t nag him about it just ask without judgement.

He needs to be honest or find out which one is happening.

Either way he needs to step up with the kids and household items.  You need to communicate and make a plan and you also need to let stuff go. Does my husband put more junk when he makes the kids lunches?  Yes.  Should I let it go? Yes.

My spouse is unhappy with his job he’s been in for 6 years now.  He’s been promoted 3x but it’s just chaotic and a tough place to work.  He would LOVE 3 months paid to find something else.  Even now when he tried to take vacation he gets called back in for some emergency (that’s not really an emergency). People who are afforded that time are really lucky and fortunate.

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