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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He magically made it home about a half hour before I would normally be getting up for my morning workout. I won’t let him know I know what time he came in. [/quote]

I’d let him know and make it clear you don’t care if he’s bleeding out on the side of the road.

Lawyer up.[/quote]

Lawyering up is a good way to spend money you would otherwise keep in a divorce. If you want to divorce, start the process based on separation, 50/50 of everything and nothing to fight over and keep your money. "Lawyering up" is rarely advisable.[/quote]

She can file all the paperwork herself after she consult a lawyer because she does not know the laws in her state.

also he tricked her into moving so she needs to figure out how she can legally get back to where she wants to live.[/quote]

There are a few circumstances where it makes more sense to move back first and then wait a while before filing.  Especially if she has family and a support system in the other state. It's where the child grew up and has friends and extended family, and he's not an involved parent, so he might not even care. You could frame it as if we want to go back home, make things work from there, and save the divorce talk for later.   If enough time passes before filing for divorce, the other state will have jurisdiction.  Obviously, not your lawyer, and I'm sure another lawyer here will chime in and tell you this is bad advice, which is why you need to hire a good lawyer.   [/quote]

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