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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Husband is the "diamond" you say. No pressure either way. It's me who fantasizes about a baby together but I definitely am concerned about my kids from first marriage. It's probably just a fantasy. I love babies.[/quote] I would at least try, OP. Love is not a zero sum game. You won’t love your children less if you have another one. While you may have a few challenges years, it could be so wonderful for everyone in the long run. Good luck![/quote] Maybe it's not, but it will feel zero sum to the current already existing kids. Love is not zero sum, but time and attention are. [/quote] Once again, we're back to a debate about family size. Big family, small family, do what's right for you. You'll figure out how to care for a third child if you want one, OP. It's not that deep. [/quote]
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