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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean, I think there’s also a middle ground interpretation that’s possible where she posted a very flattering and slightly older photo, maybe when she first started OLD and then gained a some  weight and is in denial about it or about how much she’s gained. I have had a few oh sh*t moments where I realize all of a sudden gained weight and need to buckle down. I feel like the assumption that she knows exactly how much heavier she looks and is trying to deceive you is not the most charitable or the only interpretation.[/quote]

Really, a 50 pounds difference? I can imagine 10-15 pounds difference but 50 pounds is significant. [/quote]

I’m saying I think there’s a good chance she thinks it’s a lot less of a weight gain than it is. I do WW to maintain my weight and people are always posting about not realizing how heavy they had gotten until they are like 220 lbs or something. If she’s thinking of herself as having gained just a little weight OP probably came across really badly. I can tell he doesn’t really care but I think it’s possible. [/quote]

She’s delusional then. She knows, she’s embarrassed and doesn’t want to share her current size. OP noticing doesn't make him the bad guy. Be real and you have a better chance of finding the right match. No way her sparkling personality was going to compensate for this complete misrepresentation.[/quote]

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