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Reply to "How does a judge decide custody when all the factors to be considered seem equal?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The reality is that it will probably go to the mother. The cultural bias for younger kids is that the mother gets custody. In most cases that is fair, because mothers are doing more work. They're taking care of scheduling doctor's appointments and dealing with the school and scheduling sports and classes and doing more hands on care. If the parents are doing equal work, that bias is unfair to the father, but in most cases, women are doing most of the work so it's fair. [/quote] The flip side of this is that if men fight for custody, they tend to win. [/quote] This was me (dad fought for primary physical custody and won that and legal custody). It has been the absolute worst pain of my life, and extremely humiliating (I can’t help but think that people make negative assumptions about a mother without at least 50/50 custody). I can understand why RFK Jr’ ex ended it as she did.[/quote] There's probably a backstory there that you don't know. My uncle literally bribed my aunt with money to give up custody because she is a drug addict and she did.[/quote]
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