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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH and I both tend to be messy / disorganized. He seems to not care whereas I get overwhelmed about starting or figuring out better systems. One a system is in place I’m decent at following it. Can you afford an organizer? I have ADHD and the mirroring / hyper focus when I have an organizer work with me is amazing. I hire one a few times a year and I LOVE seeing all the bags of stuff go. I think that’s a difference between clutter : organized and hoarder. My home looks cluttered often, but I’m very happy to get rid of things. I think I’d find it stressful if my DH were deciding what to get rid of, but it’s so freeing. [/quote]

Why do you get more stuff between the organizer’s visits?[/quote]

I’m the pp who hires organizers - because the course of 6 months to a year kids have birthdays / get presents, mail continues to arrive and have to be dealt with, school projects come home, children outgrow clothes or clothes get worn out or don’t fit anymore etc. So if one visit I deal with my desk and mail organizing and another visit I deal with clothes there’s still a lot I could use help with (garage, closets..). When we moved to our current apartment I had the organizer help me set up our kitchen and that’s been great. I don’t particularly like to shop for myself, but stuff piles up anyway. [/quote]

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