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[quote=Anonymous]My man, you need to take a hard look at your situation here, because you're flirting with marriage-ending behavior. In your own words, you are not "adjusting" to the baby stage (this means you're not helping, or not helping much), and you're digging in about her getting help from family, who by your admission, doesn't like you, and I can understand why. I commend you for understanding that therapy is needed here, but to be honest, you need to snap out of this, fast. Your "if we split up I don't want to wind up in the midwest" statement tells me you're already considering this option, even passively. That's a bad sign. Ultimately, in a successful marriage, what is good for your wife and your baby is good for you as a family. This doesn't mean you're taking it on the chin. It means you're making decisions as a unit. This is presumedly what you signed up for when you said "I do" and "yes" to marriage and babies. Don't blow this man. [/quote]
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