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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Great first date, lots of common interests, decent guy close to my age, great job and claims to have great values.  But two things: 1. He was too physical and 2. Agreed to my offer to split check (which was a test I use to weed out men who don’t follow gender roles).  I offer to split and then watch if they gladly agree or insist on them picking the check following the unspoken dating etiquette. Those who insist on them paying get pass to date 2.

Even though I just wanted to order  small drinks and he was the one “generously” ordering a whole bottle and lots of food. The bill was $100 and it’s nothing by my income level but typically first date bill for a man would be $30 max - couple drinks or coffee. This left me with unpleasant aftertaste. In my books, it’s the person who invites and orders more food pays. I feel like he didn’t try to impress me and I somehow felt used since he was physical (hands all over me, kisses etc). I didn’t really reject his advances and he’s a great kisser, but he did this in public and it pushed my comfort level somewhat.

He is a foreigner. Maybe that’s part of why he failed the test. Am I in the wrong here ?

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Your reasoning is stupid. If you make half a million a year, it means that you are somebody in your profession, and that paired with you having been married before puts you at least at 35 if not older. What the heck are you doing making out in public on a first date? Is this what you do on all dates?

Per your payment test, your mammas rules work in a situation where the guy has been courting you for at least a bit, and then invites you out. You guys have gone past the quick physical chemistry test. In your situation, you find a guy online and want him to act in a different way. [/quote]

We are both execs in our 40s; he’s 2 years younger. One of the reasons I was uncomfortable kissing in a hotspot bar. I told him but he did pull me towards himself couple times pretty authoritarian and said - why do you care? Who cares ? He’s from LA if that matters. 
I’m not interested in being a hot mamma for some horny Latino guy [/quote]

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