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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]no, he's not going to want to wear a condom and what if he doesn't have any? he'll probably dodge the std talk and try to raw dog you.[/quote]

Just stop.  I am willing to bet you have been married for 20+ years and have no idea what you are talking about.

Having dated in my 50's this is what I have found.  Good men, and I assuming you consider your potential partner to be among them, are eager to please.  But you need to be clear with your intentions and needs.  Don't ambush the guy with your questions without giving him the opportunity to prepare.  If you want STD testing before sex, tell him now.  You want condoms, have them available and tell him before.

Men are not mind readers.

As far your scars etc., assuming this man is around your same age, he will also have battle scars.  We all do, so don't go into this with fear that he is expecting a 20 year old body - he knows how old you are.

Best of luck and keep the communication open, the beauty of dating at this age is that we have a lot of life experience and it comes in handy with sex! [/quote]

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