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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do your adult kids want to see Grandma?  Will they clear their schedule to spend time with her when she visits?  Can you take day-trips to more interesting places?[/quote]

They would love to spend time  w her! 
They want her to see their homes, lives. 
It’s a little difficult for them travel because they all have an eye condition that makes traveling without assistance difficult. [/quote]

I was not on your side until this response (I'm the pp that asked these questions re your kids).  It does sound like your mom prefers visiting your sister because it's more fun and in line with what she likes to do.  Are your adult children limited in what activities they can do with Grandma bc of their vision impairment?   I can see how it would be hard to come up with activities that would interest your mom, and why it would hurt you that she wouldn't just come to spend time with you all.

My only suggestion is if you can do some legwork in finding activities/hikes/etc within a reasonable distance so she can spend some time with you but also do some active stuff on her own each day. [/quote]

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