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So called 'connections' is BS for the most part for normal middle class folks.[/quote]

Exactly [/quote]

If you come from LC/MC, what do you bring to the table that those rich white kids want to hang out with you? It is like a person who is fat, broke and lazy but yet wants to have a beautiful model girlfriend. The real world does not operate that way.

My DS, from a MC family, just finished his first-year at an Ivy school as a recruited athlete and this is what he told me: 1- Wealthy kids wanted to hang out with him because they want to be "cool"; 2- They can tag with him to cool parties and talk to pretty girls that they can't do that on their own; 3) My DS can play guitar and sing, so girls are naturally drawn to him (it also happened in HS), and those wealthy kids want to hang out with DS because they want to be like him.  One of the wealthy kids, whose father is a CEO of a F500 company, flew him to Vail during winter break in a private jet to stay at his parents' vacation home for two weeks and gave him 10K spending money.  He also promises DS that his mother will get DS an internship if DS is his friend during the next four years in college and beyond.  [/quote]

So you need a hook not just to get in these places, but also later to be part of the beneficial 'networking' environments people see there.  :D

FWIW my kid goes to a lower tier private school and has classmates with the same sort of wealth and connected parents. Actually, you can see this at publics too. Lots of the MC athletes hang out with the fraternities (who are kids of donors and legacies and wealthy) etc.  NONE of this dynamic is exclusive to Ivys. [/quote]
Reminds me of one of my floormates during college who stayed iron tight close to one guy in the school, because he wanted to be a doctor and the other friend was the Dean of Admissions at a certain top boarding school in Cambridge...
Let's just say they were best friends senior year, and the floormate was having dinner with the Dean's family.[/quote]
some how my brain got jumbled...I meant MEDICAL school in Cambridge[/quote]

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