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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think dating has changed for men and what they have to do to be successful has evolved.  In my mind the perfect storm of things have overlapped creating the current dating market:

1. Women don’t need man any more.  They’re often higher educated, invest more in themselves and have higher aspirations than the average male.

2. The obesity epidemic has greatly impacted the number of people that both sexes are actually, physically attracted to and want to date.

3. Women have always been the gate keepers for sex and online dating has created a “kid in a candy store” effect where they can literally order a hot guy like a pizza and have him show up at her door within 30 minutes.  Much like pizza - its not always good, but there’s no need to sleep with an average schlub that they’re not attracted to.  Not feeling like Italian tonight?  Maybe they’ll try a different experience.  Lol.

As a guy, I’ve thought about what I would do to approach today’s dating market if I were single.  A couple ideas come to mind:

1. I’d invest in myself in the same way a lot of women do - lotsa time in the gym, improve my interpersonal skills, travel, work on my career and self growth etc.  Basically, I’d have something to offer.

2.  I wouldn’t participate in online dating.  I’d talk to people and socialize wherever I went and meet someone face to face.

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I think men are the ones who think of dating like trying different pizza toppings.[/quote]

Isn't in fun when men come here to tell us how we think?  :lol: [/quote]

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