Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
College and University Discussion
Reply to "At what point is a teen "spoiling the nest" (before college) going too far?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have a conversation with her and set some boundaries for communication and respect. Tie her gas/fun money and expenses to her following through to commitments. Tell her you don't want to get to a place where you cut her off at 18 and instead only invest in her kinder and more respectful siblings. [/quote] Threatening to cut a kid off to get them to do more chores is a horrible way to parent. [/quote] Having a conversation about expectations and consequences is not “threatening.” What do you propose instead?[/quote] That consequences match the conduct. Threatening not to pay for college because of some minor annoyances the summer after senior year is crazy behavior. If you have parented sanely up until now, you already should have tools in your toolbox to handle this. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics