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[quote=Anonymous]As a recipient of negging in a past, I think the goal was to bolster his ego and remain in a position of power. It definitely made me desperate to seek out his approval and attention. There was already a notable age difference (me-20, him-30) and I thought he was a lot cooler than he actually was. In some ways I enjoyed the tension and the excitement of the ups and downs. Obviously not a healthy dynamic for a real, mature relationship. In my case, the negging was mostly talking down, condescending, treating me like I was dumb or immature. The age difference added to this whole dynamic. In retrospect, I think we were both pretty underconfident and insecure people at the time [/quote]
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