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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here...I have wrestled with the same questions you guys are raising. This is also discouraging because at our age it's already difficult to find a lifelong partner...[/quote] OP, you have found that this einen won’t be a good long-term partner for YOU. She wants kids and you don’t. I get it. At 18, I met a fabulous guy and we were very much in love, BUT he was built for a military career that would have destroyed me. I love established friendships and am terrible at making new ones. Pathologically so. I hate change. I hate flights, most vacations (for real), and not getting hugs every day. Marriage for us would have meant a huge sacrifice for one of the other of us. You and your girlfriend are in the same boat. Be honest with her. You don’t want kids. You will not want kids. If she’s not willing to forgo kids, then break up. This is a dealbreaker. [/quote]
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