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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let’s not think about red flags.  Let’s think about the kind of behavior you prefer and deserve.  My husband holds me in my arms and says “it’s not fair, why are you the only woman worth looking at?”  If he was liking women on Instagram, would he say that to me with a straight face?[/quote]

OP here. I dont know, [b]my boyfriend says that kind of thing to me all the time but he still goes through and likes bikini pics of girls he knows on Instagram (not so much instagram models but women he knows)[/b].  He says theyre just friends, but I really dont like it.  To me it makes me think he's fishing around to try to cheat, or at least get attention from women.[/quote]

The difference between my DH and your bf is that your bf is lying to you.  Stop being a loser and demand more from your relationships.[/quote] +1  I actually think THAT is a red flag, and I would tell my boyfriend to quit with the fake BS crap.  Everyone finds other people attractive; there is nothing wrong with that.

OP, I have an acquaintance that I know through a good friend of mine. Her husband "likes" all of those models' tiny bikinis, barely any clothing types on IG. Based on what I know from my friend and what I know from being around the acquaintance and her dh, they have a healthy happy relationship and they've been married 15 years.   Personally, I'd find that embarrassing, and on at least one occasion, a couple of people in the friend group mentioned it (behind her back) and said they would hate if their dh did that.   [/quote]

To clarify, these are not instagram models or porn accounts. That would be a total dealbreaker for me. He follows these women and they follow him back. He has a lot of friends and was very popular with women before he met me and we became exclusive. He's very attractive, which is one of the things that worries me. I think he puts out the vibe that he's open to them whenever he likes their pics. I know for sure how much he cares about me, but I also think he has a very high sex drive and I worry it's just a matter of time tbh [/quote]

I feel like it’s worse that we knows them.[/quote]

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