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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Make them stay in a hotel and husband is responsible for feeding/entertaining the guests. But I’m going against the grain here and going to say that not making some accommodation to have grandparents meet a grandchild in the first month is weird. If your parents in law aren’t helpful make your husband put them to work. But your child is THEIR family. If they were so awful you would have mentioned it in your original post. You need to not think of yourself as the queen of the universe because you’re not. People wonder why families don’t work any more.

Your DH should have discussed it with you, though. [/quote]

OP here. They are not awful but I’m still healing from childbirth and learning how to be a mom. Our son is just a little over 2 weeks old. It’s hasn’t been that long. [/quote]

Cancel the friends not much you can do with the parents. This is a good time to say hey I’m going to go nurse the. Any and go sit in a room for an hour every 2.5 hours. When you are done, bring the baby back and they can burp/change it while you nap or shower.[b] Do not lift a finger for these people![/b] [/quote]

Remember actions have consequences. When you are at the recieving end dont come to DCUM and post. DH's family is not helping me[/quote]

So...she's supposed to clam up and pretend this is all fine, in hopes that someday in the future it "earns" her some kind of help from them? [/quote]

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