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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You get over it and coparent just like you would in any divorce. You guys are no longer married, focus on yourself and finding your own happiness.[/quote]

This. And don’t turn bitter.  Don’t talk badly about her or your DH, or cheating to your kids.  Just be neutral.  It is in the best interest of your kids to be supportive of whatever relationship and involvement your kids want to have with their dad and new step mom. Regardless of your feelings toward them.[/quote]

easier said than done when your ex destroys your past, present and future.  all your hopes and dreams.  your sense of security and right and wrong and trust in anyone.  Until you have been heinously betrayed and gaslit by your LIFE PARTNER, you have no idea how horrible and debilitating it is.
You don't just get over it.  Betrayal trauma lasts 2-5 years per psychologists.  So please don't blame the betrayed spouse for being a bit bitter, distraught, confused, angry, etc.  You will never know the pain unless it happens to you.[/quote]

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