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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My mom married her AP less than 6 months after my dad moved out. My sister and I were 7 and 11. My dad never spoke a bad word about my mom or my stepdad in front of us. EVER. My stepdad is an incredible man and has been an amazing father to us. I can't tell you how much I respect my father for not putting adult issues onto his kids.

I understand it's painful for you, but you need to leave the kids out of it. All you can do is move forward and hope she's a good stepmother to them. It only hurts the kids if you make things difficult. As difficult as it is, you put on your big girl pants and be the bigger person for the sake of the kids.[/quote]

Your stepfather broke up a family. he is not an incredible man. This is why people need to share some truth with their kids. It’s a parents job to instill character and proper values. breaking up families is immoral, and there is nothing wrong with teaching your kids so. In fact, you should![/quote]

+1.  Your Dad deserves respect,  but it's really weird you don't recognize your SD was not a good guy.  I notice you don't mention your mom, so maybe you realize she was the jerk.[/quote]

You can make a mistake and still be a good person. Life is messy. I was mad about it when I was younger but I worked through it. Harboring resentment wasn't serving a purpose. [/quote]

Good people don’t cheat.  [/quote]

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