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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ex moved out and bought a new house. His AP immediately moved in. He immediately introduced her to his friends, our joint friends, and our kids; and started posting love notes to her on social media. I suspect some of those people (not the kids) had already met her. I was humiliated and hurt—not about the divorce but about how he immediately went so public with his AP.  I learned about her during the divorce and was shocked when I found out he had already talked about her to our mutual friend.   Therapy, a lot of therapy. And a lot of hard work is what it takes.  My kids are older, although my youngest was 16 when everything happened, so we didn't deal with custody or any of the things that go with having very young kids.  That was a relief.    It brought me to the darkest, lowest place that I've ever been in my life.  I'm sorry you're going through this. [/quote]

So your 16 year old just opted out of seeing your ex?[/quote] No he saw him but we didn't have a formal agreement. He'd text and say he'd like 16 yo to stay with him on a particular week; I'd check with my son to see if it was OK, which he always said yes.   It was very informal but worked for us.[/quote] I also forgot to add, they are married now and seem to be super in love.  My friends who have been around them say they are super lovey-dovey, act like teenagers in love, etc.   I think he found his soul mate forever person.  It hurts how it all went down, but I've climbed mountains to sort through my feelings and I'm in such a good place now.[/quote]

How long ago did you separate? [/quote]

I watched this happen to a friend of mine. Her now ex husband got a new colleague at work and they just clicked. Same quirks, sense of humor, hobbies, like she was his other half. First they were just best buds and hung out, then they both left their spouses to be together. My friend married him in her early twenties and he was her college boyfriend. Not sure what to make of it. Everyone on this forum is like “snag a guy in college and lock him down. Start saving money and buy a house” but how do you know this won’t happen?[/quote]

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