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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was in a 3 yr post-divorce relationship that was monogamous, or so I thought.  He gave me herpes which I think he got from random hookups with his ex even though she was with someone else too.  It was quite a surprise for me, I had no idea he was doing anyone else so not exactly what you are talking about.

Would you be ok with it if he gave you herpes or something else?  Would he be ok with it if you gave it to him?  Condoms don't necessarily prevent transmission of herpes.[/quote]

I'm sorry that happened to you. Was it his ex-girlfriend or his ex-wife? Why would a man go back to his ex-wife after signing divorce papers, custody agreements, etc. And still be f****** them. It's just gross and really grossed at and continue to sleep with her well-being with you. Yes, I would absolutely never do. Polly, I don't care what people say that people can evolve into it or whatever. There is no good outcome of it.[/quote]

It was his ex wife and probably just a very few random hookups that I knew nothing about and didn't suspect.  Live and learn.  It sucks because herpes is forever even when relationships aren't.[/quote]

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