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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Am I worried about my own kids? Not really. I like having them around and they know it. The conversations I have with my teens now my parents never had with me, I learned to keep everything to myself pretty early. [/quote]
There is no way that you can know whether 25 years from now, your adult children will see what you have done as sufficiently loving and supportive.  Social mores and expectations are constantly changing and the type of parenting we provided may or may not be kindly looked upon in the future.  There is no way to know.  All you can do is try your best in any given moment and hope it all works out.

My parents certainly made mistakes, but I don't hold it against them personally.  They tried and did what they could with the information available to them, the societal expectations of the time, and with what they had been taught from their own upbringing.  There really is no point to hanging on to anger about something that they didn't even know was wrong.[/quote]

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