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[quote=Anonymous]Are you depressed OP? You sound like you are.
Be careful not to be negative about everything, it is a very real thing that happens as we age. My DH is doing the same, and what he could tolerate before is now a huge deal.
As an example, my FIL "came" to our DD's college graduation. His friend, who also came, tested positive for COVID-19 as soon as she landed. She knew she was sick prior to boarding the flight. Not this year.
He then proceeded to cancel his adult DD's hotel room! (She is over 50.) The hotel did it, even though the room was in her name! Clearly, because we still live in the 19th century. FIL then proceeded to share the room with his ill friend, missed the graduation ceremony, and then blamed that on his son! My DH.
He did not feel sick at all, did not get it, but he said that he wasn't going to come even masked, as we were too scared of covid!
None of this is true. He als
o was not worried at all about infecting others, that would have been a legit reason to skip, right?
He came to spend time with his lady friend, who is married and lives in another state.
He is a narcissist, clearly and depressed. He was diagnosed with depression and told his doctor that he wanted to take meds for it; it is his due to get his way and to criticize everyone his age.
 During this visit, SIL told me she has a master's in psychology.
This is the same father who did not speak to her for almost 10 years because she was divorced, and he took son in in-law's side. He is still on great terms and best buddies with his former son-in-law.
I noticed you did not come back with an update. Is it because a few of us posted something you did not want to hear?
Guess who can't hear a single thing they don't agree with?
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