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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ummmm, no. My husband drinks socially. His goal is not to get buzzed. If he ever accidentally get buzzed, he asks me to drive or we would make a plan to get a ride or take an Uber. Desiring a buzz and putting so much into achieving and maintaining it is beyond weird and not normal, social drinking behavior. [/quote] This - the active need to have the buzz is what is concerning. [/quote] **OP said, he will just skip the drinks altogether if he doesn't pregame. That is not needing the buzz, it is preferring it. If her DH "needed" the buzz, he just wouldn't go out if he couldn't enjoy a drink or two ahead of time. He's not skipping the social outing, he's just saying, hey if I can't pregame before getting to the restaurant, I'd rather not waste the money/calories on drinks at that point bc they will not effect me til I'm ready for bed. Totally different [/quote]
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