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Reply to "My husband yells at me or the kids at least once a day "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thank you for the responses. I see what everyone is saying but like, I am not in a position to leave the marriage right now. I have one older kid and a nursing baby and between working full time and breastfeeding and having shared finances and doing WFH with my husband I have no time for anything. I was just diagnosed with high cholesterol and prediabetes and cannot even find 20 minutes each day to work out. What is the point of documenting things? Why is no one suggesting pursuing marriage counseling, even if just for myself? We share one vehicle and I have very little privacy from him. [/quote] OP if you can’t afford to then don’t get divorced. Focus on increasing your earning potential for the future. You are not being physically abused but you are incompatible. You probably married him bc of the same high performing traits of his that are now holding you accountable for your deficiencies. Neither of you will change. If you are not on medication for the ADHD you need to be. Interactions like this happen bc the neurotypical person has passed the point of no return on tolerating the ADHD. [/quote]
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