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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Men have always paid for dates with me, whether as first or early dates or in relationships. It’s a turnoff if a guy expects you to pay. [/quote]

For me it’s a turn off when a guy treats me like a non-equal partner. [/quote]

He actually treats you fairly and equitably when he pays. Women give more in other aspects of the relationship. Any woman who was married for a long time understands it
My son is not a mommy’s boy. He did all his college visits on his own, travels with friends living independently. He just values what women bring to the table beside money and doesn’t value everything in life  in monetary terms [/quote]

I’m sure he will find himself a nice trad wife and will be very happy. I don’t do more than my partner in any aspect of my relationship. We are very equal in everything. [/quote]

Life brings changes. It’s rarely when partners earn exactly the same, contribute exactly the same with child care etc. Partners take roles and these roles may change over years. When your partner is old and frail, and is no longer able to contribute equally - would you dump him ? [/quote]

What are you even going on about? Of course I wouldn’t dump him. And he wouldn’t dump me either. We are a team and love and support each other not because of some transitional roles you think we assumed. I specifically looked for a man who is an adult and can manage just fine without me but wants me in his life because he loves me. Not because he needs me to be his second mom. [/quote]

You do sound transactional, petty and also pretty set in your ways [/quote]

And you sound completely dumb. [/quote]

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