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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is he on medication? [/quote]

Op here. Yes. And we’ve done evaluations and we have an army of doctors. We have a diagnosis. We know the cause.

If possible, I would greatly appreciate if we could stick to the question I am asking, which is NOT-how do I prevent this from happening or why is this happening. Because I have already done ALL THE THINGS-promise :) I am not looking for comprehensive feedback on our medical and therapy regime. I assure you I have left no stone unturned. Just asking specifically about experiences with SN kids and activities/summer camps.[/quote]

It is happening due to the hyperactivity. The only treatment for ADHD/hyperactivity is medication. No need to be touchy about it. We all have kids with issues in this forum. The medication he is on is not working if his hyperactivity is not managed to this degree.

The only other suggestion I have is camps that are sports/running heavy. So soccer, swimming, etc. But even then if his inattention is preventing him from following directions, I'm not sure it would work. [/quote]

Op here. I put my 4 year old on stimulants. I’m aware he’s hyperactive. I am not looking for explanations. I know my kid.

If you look at my OP, I had a specific question which is:

At what point do you just decide that your kid won’t be in anything and stop trying?[/quote]

Your question is about you feeling sorry for yourself at the moment and not actually looking for solutions. I get it. I have a kid on the spectrum who also has ADHD and ticks. I get it. It took me a long come to come to terms with some things.

But I am telling you as a mother to a 16 year old that the medication is not working and it could fix a lot of the issues. [/quote]

Op here. Just go away. You’re not helping. We literally have a child psychiatrist who we see every month. You honestly think you can do better on an anonymous board than what our psychiatrist who is an MD and has actually seen our child for years can? Did you see the part where I said we put our 4 year old on stimulants? Do you think that happens by just waltzing into a pediatrician appointment? It took tenacity and follow up and advocacy and specialists and doctor shopping to get a 4 year old on stimulants, mmmkay?[/quote]

I mean, what did you expect posting this here? Honestly. The advice you get here is usually worth about what you paid for it. NP

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DP I will never understand why so many DCUM posters feel compelled to offer advice that a poster has specifically stated they don't want.

Y'all are jerks. OP asked nicely to stick to the question she asked, and people ignored the request. Why? If you can't answer given the information provided, don't post.[/quote]

Op here. Thank you for sticking up for me. I even reported this thread because I can’t tell if it’s one poster or multiple posters with an axe to grind.

My unwillingness to discuss medication here with strangers on the internet doesn’t mean that we aren’t looking at medication. I feel I’ve throughly explained that my son is on meds and working with doctors on this. I don’t think I should have to explain every detail of medication and diagnoses and evaluations and therapies, etc. to be allowed to ask a question here.[/quote]

It's multiple posters telling you the same thing but you choose to be defensive and rude. No one has been unkind to you. [/quote]

I'm the PP defending OP. OP asked quite nicely to stick to the question, and she was called "touchy". That was uncalled for. People continued to offer advice that was clearly unsolicited. That is really annoying, and I don't know why that's considered okay on DCUM but I've had it happen too and it is really invasive and frustrating. There is NO reason to demand private medical information on this forum and if you are doing that you should ask yourself why it is important to you to force advice on someone who doesn't want it.[/quote]

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