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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Say thank you for planning it then show up and enjoy the time with your child[/b].[/quote]

Yes, do that. Show up with a big present for your kid and a fake cast around your foot.  Thank the GF loudly for planning it.  Be very gracious and pleasant. Say hello to all your old friends.  Don't let them sense any tension between you and the two clowns,   Take lots of pictures and put it on social media even as the party progresses.  Take pictures with the birthday kid and all the friends.  And do not lift a finger to help (point at your cast and tell them that you have sprained your foot).  Think of ex your ex and his gf as your event planners who are doing all the labor.  Also, do not pay them a dime for hosting the party. [/quote] Sure, if you want to everyone gossiping about you behind your back about how obviously bothered you are.  This sounds so over-the-top fake, like an SNL skit. Everyone would see right through this phony act.   Loudly thanking the GF, running around taking pictures and chatting with everyone, fake smiles and laughter.   You'll look like an idiot.

OP, what's the update? Did you go to the party?[/quote]

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