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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the most common thing is that one sibling does 95% and the other does 5%, under duress. That’s what I have observed. [/quote] Or: one sibling does 95% of everything. The other sibling's 5% consists of criticizing and second guessing what sibling #1 did.[/quote] My brother did a fair amount. He lived locally, was single, and had no kids. I lived far away and had young kids. If I had lived locally, I would've probably done more than my brother and more consistently. But I didn't, so I kept those comments to myself. I focused on the areas where I had the best skills than come in for long stints when I could sit at SSA, etc for hours when I could line up coverage, get a break from work, etc. [/quote]
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