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[quote=Anonymous]I think it is quite possible that different personalities are at play here too. Most helpful sibling and OP likely have a love language of helping hands or whatever they call it. They think that showing love is done through acts of service. Thus, because unhelpful sibling is not doing these tasks, it reflects a lack of love for grandma. Other sibling has a different love language and has no concept he is being judged like this (and I can almost guarantee it is a “he.”). If you and helpful sibling want to have a relationship with unhelpful sibling, some self-reflection is going to be necessary to lose the judgment.[/quote]
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