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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You're getting defensive. It doesn't matter what the other kids are saying/doing. Deal with that separately. But the tit for tat isn't good. Are you proud of the things your daughter is saying? If I hear my kids being mean I address it even if they are retaliating. Mean is mean.[/quote]

Of course I am getting defensive. People are bringing up random egregious behaviors they have seen and arguing against those in the same breath as DD. If DD were 9 years old and telling other girls their hair looked dumb or that they were poor and had the wrong water bottle, you bet I’d know that was out of the norm. If they were repeated behaviors targeting one or two kids, I’d know that was a more serious problem too.

I am not defending DD’s comments at all. I think they were unkind and rude and absolutely shouldn’t have been shared. I said I am addressing at home. I wanted to know if her comments were really out of the norm. In other words, is this a typical problem that parents have to deal with at this age, or a bigger one that I should be addressing in a different way?[/quote]

I think it sounds like most reasonable responses is that this is fairly typical and not likely a bigger problem, though you might ask for a longer discussion with the teacher to know for sure.

There are several posts from people decrying meanness while calling a child a "brat."  I don't think those are worth paying attention to.[/quote]

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