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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My kid is taller and less in weight. Don’t know where you are getting the skinny idea from. [/quote]

So is mine, but come on…you know what she means. I definitely do. A lot of boys this age are quite muscled already and have a more mature looking face (more facial hair, squared  jaw etc)…..they look older. [/quote]

This is my son. He's 14, 150 pounds and zero fat. He also has his Dad's jawline but he definitely still looks and acts a like a 15 year old just an athletic one. [b]Football did a lot to build is muscle[/b][/quote]

This.  I'm the PP that keeps harping about weight training.  You gotta get this kid into football or wrestling or BJJ, something with a physical intensity.

So that even if he has a baby face, at least he'll have an age appropriate physique.  For some kids, those just happen.  But for most of the boys at ages 14/15 that are muscular, also swim or wrestle or do one of the really physically grinding sports[/quote]

I completely agree with this for the average boy but to be fair there is definitely a subset of boys where this won’t have much effect…super late bloomers- for example my older son weighed about 90lbs on a good day at 14 and hadn’t yet started puberty- looked like an 11yo. While strength is always good- no amount of physical conditioning or training will speed things up much for kids like this, unfortunately. They need time and puberty. My younger DS is currently 14 and on a more normal timetable and your advice would be spot on for him. But there is always a handful of teeny tiny not yet in puberty boys like this at 14 and even 15…in those cases, there isn’t much you can do but wait IME. My 14yo DS has a friend who weighs 80lbs…At his size, football is probably not going to be feasible LOL. But his parents and older siblings are very average to tall sized people and his time will come. Older DS was closer to 16 before he was physically ready to train & build muscle. I do think in some cases, just reassuring these boys that their time will come is the right answer….[/quote]

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