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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes Op, you should give in because it's not that important to you[/quote]

It’s her wedding. Of course it’s important to her. She doesn’t like the idea of separate venues and wants to get married at the venue they have booked. She doesn’t want to lie to a priest about how she will raise her kids. She wouldn’t have posted here if this issue wasn’t important to her.

There is no reason religion should be considered more important than the desire to have a non-religious wedding. [/quote]

Is it HER wedding? Nobody else involved?[/quote]

Reading comp fail. We were discussing in particular what is important to OP. The PP said this isn’t important to her. I said of course it is, it’s her wedding. Most people care about their wedding. It’s a huge logical leap to go from “her wedding” = hers and hers alone.

If I say “I love my kids” that doesn’t mean I’m asserting that they are my kids alone and don’t have a father. But you’re twisting yourself in knots to follow that line of thinking. [/quote]

You're not very smart. And bad analogy. The her fiancé wants a church wedding. Full stop. They are at an impasse. Someone will give in and will be resentful. That they didn't get the wedding "they" wanted. The marriage is doomed but good to know before they end up divorced.[/quote]

You (or whoever the PP was) equated stating that it’s her wedding with meaning no one else is involved. I was pointing out the stupidity in that particular logic (not the merits of this wedding itself).

If you walked into a bakery and said “I’d like to order a cake for my wedding day” and the baker said “YOUR wedding day? Are you marrying yourself? Is there no one else involved?” you would probably think wow, that baker is pretty stupid. [/quote]

Just stop with the stupid analogies. A wedding is about more than just the party. It's about compatibility, values, and mutual respect. There is a red flag here that they aren't on the same page in several ways.[/quote]

Don’t make stupid comments if you don’t like analogies showing how stupid your comment is.

The absurdity of your comment that calling it “her wedding” is the same as being “hers alone” is unrelated to their lack of compatibility. [/quote]

You can't be married. You sound dim and immature. The wedding isn't about just where to have the party. But, a lot of baby brides get caught up in the party and forge the rest and soon find themselves divorced. Good luck OP![/quote]

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