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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Thank you for the replies.

For clarity, this is WAY beyond a situation where we’ve simply moved past the lust stage or lack butterflies. When I say there is no conflict, what I mean is the kids do not see us fighting. There are massive amounts of dysfunction in our relationship. Even though we don’t fight, there is still a lot of toxicity that is only getting worse over time and I do feel overwhelming resentment and disappointment in DH.

We have tried going to couples counseling multiple times over multiple years. It did not help us.

I don’t know where we go from here. But wanted to clarify this is way beyond a situation of me yearning for more romance or something.

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Clearly you’re looking for a justification that will allow you to overcome your guilt in crapping on your kids by divorcing.

If you want to do what’s best for the kids, you stay together and both of you put in some effort to fix your toxic selves. Anything else is just selfishness.[/quote]

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