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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Woman here and still very curious to hear from men/PP who said they wouldn’t commit to exclusivity before sex. 
How many women do you tryout, does sex actually differ from woman to woman or there is usually one you like most and have sex with her? If a woman won’t do BJ in non -exclusive situation do you discard her as “bad in sex”? How do you navigate that logistically (do you tell women you are busy while you sleep with others)? 
And how soon does this elaborate tryout process result in selecting “the one”? 
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For me, the sexual experience varies a lot even though the sex acts are more or less the same for most.  With some women I feel much stronger attraction.  Some women seem to enjoy me much more than others (which matters to me a lot).  Some women are also much more attuned to my body, or are more skilled, but the other two things are much more important to me.  [/quote]

You place way to much emphasis on sex. There's "it's important" and then there's you. [/quote]

Woman here and I agree with this male poster. It absolutely differs. I don’t want a relationship where the sex is mediocre. I’d rather go without.[/quote]

Woman here, too. Mediocre sex is what the above male poster describes; I’ll never put my heart and effort into sex with someone if I know he’s sleeping with others. At best we will have mechanical condomed PIV and I don’t think I would have an O with that information at hand. Im extremely prissy about mixing my bodily fluids with many people. It will be mediocre sex by default .

I had under 5 partners in a lifetime, these were all men I was very passionate about and we were sexually exclusive from the  start. The sex was amazing from my perspective with all of them, even when there were small physical incompatibilities.

I chose the person first, then had sex with them

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