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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it depends, because it is a fine line. I have no issue with someone stating a general problem/source of sorrow in their life (e.g., "A little blue, we just found out my dad has cancer."). But, I don't want to get immersed in someone's personal drama at a party (e.g., "Awful, Stepmom is being horrible about the custody schedule and I'm going to have to be all alone on Christmas next year."). A good rule of thumb is that if I wouldn't say it to my boss, I wouldn't bring it up casually during a party either.[/quote] This is a good rule, time, place and read the room. OP, the above is important not only to be respectful of the limits of friends and courteous re: the hospitality of the host, it's also about setting yourself up to be likely to get the support you need and are seeking. Also seek professional support as needed, you deserve it. Hope things get better very soon. [/quote]
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