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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you should find a therapist. It’s OK not to tell the therapist everything. You could be upfront about it, and tell her what you told us, and still work on things like coping skills and boundaries and stuff. I went through a similar situation, although mine was sex related (then-husband had an affair, and when his AP tried to break it off, he broke into her house, destroyed her stuff, and then distributed intimate pictures of her on an amateur porn site). I knew I was leaving, but also realized that it was no good for DD if her dad was in prison, so I played along. I had a therapist to help me through it, and then the divorce.[/quote] I’m so sorry you had to go through this! Did your XH go to prison after all?[/quote] He did not. But he does have it on his record so he cannot change jobs or do anything else that will require a background check. We divorced, and our daughter is in college now, so we have no remaining financial ties.[/quote] I don't understand this story. Your ex was not innocent. What did staying married do for this case?[/quote]
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