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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t believe in ever blaming the victim, but if this is the attitude of many marrieds, I honestly wonder how much [b]tit for tat, curation, control[/b], and hostile action goes into the daily interactions of the marriage, and I feel less sympathetic to the spouse crying about how they’ve been wronged. I don’t condone cheating, but I also see how it isn’t always a simple equation. [/quote] It's called 'natural consequences' not tit for tat or control or whatever complicated thing you want it to be. Even kindergarteners know this.[/quote] Natural consequences would be their spouse finding out on their own, not someone purposefully going out of their way and telling them. I’ll take science and psychology for 100. Finding out and then telling someone else is tattling. Every kindergartener knows this as tattling or gossip. [/quote] Omg. Are you for reals? Lol Yeah you been banging countless dudes bareback for decades —I’m going to let your poor spouse know. A consequence of screwing another person’s spouse is that person telling your spouse. How you like them apples?[/quote] Yep. That’s a consequence. Your spouse leaving is another. [/quote]
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