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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He tried to get you back for months? This is new info. You are the problem. You should not have met up with him at all. You are awful.[/quote]

OP here. I didn’t think that was super relevant. I ended the relationship. He made a number of attempts to get back with me but I had already made up just mind that point. I didn’t want to wait until he got home to start our lives together. I felt like there was no compromise and the sacrifice was all from me. It wasn’t an easy decision but I just couldn’t wait around for up to 3 years to get engaged/married/have kids. The way I looked at it was I was 31. If he was gone for 3 years, I would be 34. We get engaged and married at 35. Then he said he wanted to be married for a couple of years before we had kids. That would put having kids at 37/38. I don’t want to miss my chance at motherhood. [/quote]

It was relevant and you know that so you deliberately took it out to get people on your side.

It was also cold of you to have coffee with him you could have simply texted him back saying thanks but no thanks.

But you wanted to  get a kick in.

You're just a mean spirited and dramatic person.

As someone else said He is better off without you and he will see what a blessing it is someday.

You however good luck being married to and raising kids with a man who has an anger problem [/quote]

OP here. I’m not dramatic. It was honestly nice to see him and I felt it was better to do it in person than over text. I wanted to hear what he had to say because I still wasn't 100% sure of what I wanted to do.

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Whatever. girl.[/quote]

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