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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Would the pay at these new jobs for you make up the salary for a nanny or live-in help? Or are any of the jobs more flexible (since your last one wasnt) to allow for you to take DC to medical appts?[/quote]

Op here. We have a full time nanny and my mother lives in an ADU on our property. The new jobs are not flexible. My old job is not flexible.

I know the obvious solution is for me to make a boat load of money and outsource our life. But overseeing and coordinating all the outsourcing is also a huge task. I just simply can’t do it anymore. I tried. I have been drugging myself up every morning on adderall, Prozac, and Wellbutrin to drag myself through my day for years now. It got too hard and complex for me too. [/quote]

Why can't your mom help?  Is she paying rent for that ADU?  If not, charge her rent or rent it out also.  Is there a reason your mom couldn't help with appointments or at least attend with your husband?

Can your mom move into your home and you rent out the ADU for income and your mom pays to rent her room?

And if you aren't working FT get rid of that nanny!  
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