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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I don’t see divorce as an option because then my kids would be with him unsupervised half the time. He lives in filth and is not capable of maintaining a household. His office and the garage are areas he has control over and it is not possible to walk through them or even see the floor. They are overflowing with trash, papers, computers, junk, etc.

I can’t let my kids grow up in an environment like that. I’m staying married to avoid that scenario and so I can ensure that their needs are met. [/quote]'

This isn't helping your kids.

Divorce him and do it now when you are making less $ so hopefully your alimony won't be a lot.  It probably wont be a 50/50 split anyway. Get divorced, then get your life together get a great job and hire help.  Or if he gets 50/50 maybe you ask a lawyer about your being the main parent who deals with all medical decisions/needs/appointments.

You should have stayed at your job and gone on intermittent FMLA.  That doesn't kick in for a year.  [/quote]

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