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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I am so very sorry to hear about your situation. This is truly sad to see. 😢 Your husband is a complete dud… For him to behave in such a manner & leave his family like this is outrageous imo. My best advice is to divorce this rat. Hopefully you can get at the very least child support from him but if he isn’t working full-time it likely will be minimal. Do you have enough equity in your house where it might make more sense to sell it? Reason being is that if you become a landlord - this may add add’l stress to an already stressful situation. But yes, I suggest you rent an apartment + proceed w/divorce for sure. It would also be a great benefit if you had supportive family who could assist you and your children during this most difficult period. I wouldn’t try working on the marriage at this stage > it is clear to me your husband has completely checked out at this point. Trying to salvage your union would just be setting you back 1000 steps. Look ahead and forge a plan for you and your kids. It may take time for it to all come to fruition but keep your eye on the prize! I wish you all the best in your future endeavors![/quote]
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