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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you the STEPmom or the bio mom, OP.
Just asking because this reads a little like you are gatekeeping your DH from granting a request from his 9-year-old DD. The 4yo son is too young to care about this.[/quote]

I think she is a step mom also. 
The kids are 5 years apart.  You smaller xhild will not be jealous and things change.  At any time I can reconfigure my house to make it flow better. Also kids don't play with toys forever.  A playroom is a temporary thing in the grand scheme so your husband saying maybe when your are older makes sense.  My oldest and second have a wide age gap.  They started out with their own rooms, shared a room with the extra being a playroom etc.  Op, just make the room onto a playroom.  Use the girly builtins for decor to give her a pretty space in the playroom.  Also why did you buy this house if the layout causes grief.

Also from this post i get the feeling you are a step parent or you dont like your daughter so you should explore the why there also.  Do you favor your son?  Admitting it to yourself and working to get help to control how much you show favoritism could help.   Getting help  now will benefit you later on.  [/quote]

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