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[quote=Anonymous]You just can't function on a tit-for-tat basis in a marriage. It sounds like you keep a ledger of "wrongs" and "injustices" and that's just not sustainable. You've gotta play the long game and learn not to catastrophize the small stuff, especially when you have kids. I am either 10 minutes early or 5 minutes late to pick up and I can't seem to change that. I can't imagine if my DH was breathing down my neck and universalizing my being late sometimes to being an untrustworthy person. It sounds like he's doing his best to balance a busy family life with a demanding job. Give him some credit for trying to make it work. Your marriage may depend on it. [/quote]
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